You'll frequently hear terms like "top" and "bottom" thrown around in LGBTQ + culture to describe sexual dynamics, and the tops — rare as they may be -- are often seen as the more dominant partner.
Dom top. Fem top. Vers top. Total top. These are all important terms in the lexicon of top culture.
In the context of gay relationships and sexual dynamics, terms such as “top”, “bottom”, “verse” and “side” are often used to describe a person’s sexual preferences and roles. It is important to knowing these terms not only for members of the LGBTQ+ community, but also for increasing understanding and acceptance of queer relationships in society.
Whether you'd classify yourself as a sub, slave, boy, bottom or another term entirely, one thing is fairly true across the board, finding the right Dom/Master/Sir/top for you isn't always a straightforward process. Let's face it, one man's ideal Dom might not be Dom enough for another. In an effort to help out any newbies, we thought we'd layout a few basic tips. **For the purposes of this.